so im not the type of person that will ask for help. id rather go nuts than ask! so my dear sister in law tammy came over today and cleaned my entire house. um, she said i didnt have an option of saying no and chad is now making me not refuse help. she is a little crazy because she likes to clean...it shows, she did a wonderful job and i owe her big time!! thank you so much tam!! ...and for any of you that want to help you might just have to show up too. and even more, i would love your company!!!!